What is Love?
It’s a Question we all ask. Here’s my favorite definition.
-Love is an unconditional & healthy concern for the well being of another person, held in balance with an equally strong concern for ones own well-being. So if it’s really love, your concern for that someone special has to be unconditional- you give it without requiring anything in return. The only limit, but it’s a big one, is that you love yourself to a similar degree. Leave that out and again, its not really love.
However, healthy relationships also need commitment, which is conditional, if a relationship is not defined by conditions then it lacks commitment. If you can hold the balance between love and commitment. You have learned one of the great secrets of a successful relationship.
-Author Unknown