Johnnydevil's blog: "Real Fu-Kin Life."

WTF

So many fakes, so little time. That’s a whole other issue that usually rights itself. What I’m not seeing righting itself is how some people are treating each other on here, and the depravity, the lies and the seediness that I’ve heard about. No one is perfect. We all have a few faces. One we show to the Fubar World, one we show to the people we get closer to on here and finally, the actual one we have in real life. It’s when things cross some of these lines that the picture of what someone really is or pretends to be gets blurred. Or even worse, we find out their Fubar face is nothing like they really are and what they do in real life.

Blow this up JD blow that up JD !!

There’s a lot of things that I have to shy away from blowing out on here because it is simply personal drama and vendettas. Here are some examples that I have toyed with of late..pondering…
Is a Top Member that pretends to be a hot emo girl, uses her sister’s pics at times, but really weighs over 300 lbs and constantly moves in on other people’s boyfriends worth blowing out here? .. I dunno.
I mean sure it’s lying , sure it’s dishonest. There are a lot of people effected. It has effected people on here I consider “close” to me. But is it my place to do it when so many others that have been actually effected have blogs of their own to do it in? Is it my place?….I mean I could relay their message, but should I be the messenger?…
Then there’s another girl on here who totally straight lied to me about so many things so often that it makes even my head spin. She lied to me about camming & phone sex for bling, she lies and uses people up and down a wall. Funny part is I actually know people that do that kind of thing and it doesn’t bother me, it’s their choice. But they don’t lie about it This has gotten to the point where I actually have her pics and have recorded conversations of her lies and admitting to said things. This one might get hit based on her total disrespect for me by lying. It’s never about what people do, they are adults. But why lie about it when you have to know that I will find out the truth eventually?…..if that one does get blogged then it will have to be done in a way I’ve never done before. Simply because it would amount to so much that would be beyond the relative safety of a NSFW tag….still working on the amount of “necessary” proof but it is coming along…and it’s a young girl too…I view her as pathetic as so many of you should, and probably will…
Then there’s this. Another person that I actually supported. And the whispers and stories of his “problem” with girls becoming paramount, even though he already had what I consider one of the best people I’ve met on here and very real on a much larger scope than even I imagined. Needless to say I am disgusted with this revelation. Repulsed even. Those that need to know know how I feel about this. To throw real away and taint it is just..UGH. Once again, that’s something I can’t blow up here either. But I have to say something. It’s just surreal. The hypocrisy is just on such a large scale. And I’m actually beyond words about it…
Then there’s the randomness of the “this is a cam girl,” “this is a bling girl,” “this is a user” situation. Do you know what I see that as? Drama. If it’s that bad blog the drama yourself please. There are thousands of fake profiles on here with no salute, don’t do anything and don’t harm anybody. While I appreciate the vigilance of everyone that has sent me messages regarding these profiles, my view is this : If it doesn’t have a salute, has under 2,000 profile rates, is inactive and not doing anything, it’s really not worth it. Now if it has a fake salute, persay like the ones I blog about and is trying to pull a fast one of Fubar people and scam them, well so be it, then we can investiage it and go forward. But if it’s just another Raven Riley or Next Door Nikki fake with 3 pics and 12 rates, it will sort itself out down the line. It’s the active scammers and fakes and cheaters that are of more concern than the inactive ones.
Am I being a bitchy grouch? Sure. I’ve been dwelling on all of this nonsense for sure for quite some time as of late. It’s time to move past it, and hold those accountable and take them to task. But at some point, people have to take …

Personal Responsibility

..for their choices and what they do in real life as well on Fubar. Sure it’s fun to hear about what goes on and sure if someone asks my advice I will be more than happy to give it. Some people may not like it but it’s how I really feel about things and who I am. At least respect it. As you should each other…
And remember to take those to task in your life that need to be, always remember to ask the tough questions, whether it be on Fubar or real life….
More of what you’re used to later in the week I’m sure, I just needed to get these issues out. I hope who it applies to understands. If not , sorry….peace.