Apparently some of us aren't.
I felt the need to write this little blog to remind people that you are supposed to be ADULTS and act accordingly.
In the last few weeks, I've been pretty silent, and mostly M.I.A. with real life, but I do log in here and there to help out some people and rate family and friends. That step back has shown me some really ugly faces on here. Some that I would not even expect. Now, I won't name names because everyone has the right to see others for themselves.
I would like to take a minute and share some things you should AVOID:
1. DO NOT make fake profiles to harass people who have you blocked. IT IS NUTS. It makes you a psycho stalker. If they blocked you, THEY DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. It's that simple.
2. DO NOT try to talk shit about another member just to get ahead. You can refer back to my blog about rumors. All that does is show people what a manipulative, jealous, and otherwise immature dip shit you are.
3. DO NOT bash another member in your status message. It's juvenile, and you earn the tag "drama whore" really quickly.
4. DO NOT take your fubar beef with someone to real life. I don't care that you don't like me on fu. But don't even THINK about taking your crazy shit to my friends on facebook. Also, DO NOT bring your real life beef with someone to fu. I don't care that you two broke up, so you're now stalking all his female friends just to make sure he is never happy again. I don't care that she left you for your roommate. IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS. Personal life is PERSONAL. Learn how to keep some things private! Perhaps a little self-reflection of WHY you two aren't together anymore would really behoove you.
5. DO NOT scam people out of things on here. All it will get you is blogged, and news here spreads VERY quickly.
6. DO NOT EVER put pics of your children in a folder with scantily clad or compromising pics of yourself.
Some things that might make things a little more pleasant for us all:
1. Use your real pics. No one here likes fakes except other fakes.
2. Learn how to respectfully communicate with people. Don't approach women and ask them to go see your NSFWs. There's a really good chance that you will earn a block quickly. Most women on here really don't care about your teeny weenie.
3. Put some clothes on. If you don't want to, LEARN HOW TO MARK YOUR PICS NSFW. I don't want to see a close-up of your vagina in my bar tab. Especially since the pics are now HUGE if you scroll over them.
4. You probably might not want to solicit in your status message. It makes you look like a whore. And I'm pretty sure your NSFWs aren't worth 100 bucks.
5. Treat your friends here with the same regard you treat your friends in real life. If you wouldn't back-stab your life-long bestie, why do it on here?
6. Remember, most courts are allowing things posted online to be used against you in custody cases, divorces, lawsuits, etc. Really think about what can come back and bite you in the ass before you decide to hit that send button.
That is all for now.