Well its over my wife doesnt want to be with me anymore she is leaving for iraq soon so im confused should I not support the soldier I love when she is gone not write and let her know whats going on in the real world when she is in a place of despair I understand thats its over but when she gets there she will realize she needed me now more then ever well if you have a opinion let me know because I have to be the bigger person through all this and still be a friend to a soldier I care about