SOOOO....I'M VERY NEW IN THE DATING SCENE AFTER BEING GONE FOR 12YRS. WHAT I HAVE NOTICED IN THE LAST FEW MONTHS IS THINGS HAVE CHANGED. BEFORE I GOT MARRIED, DATING WAS A MAN PICKED YOU UP AT HOME, TOOK YOU TO DINNER AND A MOVIE. HE AT LEAST WORKED AT TRYING TO GET THE BOOTIE AT THE END OF THE NIGHT. NOW IT IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT. RIGHT AWAY THE MAN IS TALKING ABOUT SLAMMIN THAT ASS! HE DOESNT ASK YOU OUT TO DINNER OR A MOVIE..YOU MIGHT GET AN INVITE TO A HOTEL. MAYBE I HAVE JUST MET THE WRONG MEN, IF SO THEN WHERE CAN I MEET THE ONES THAT LIKE THE CHALLENGE OF A WOMAN. SO FOLKS HIT ME UP AND GIVE ME SOME INSIGHT INTO THE WHOLE DATING SCENE THAT I HAVE NO IDEA ABOUT ANYMORE!