Well I am going through the big "D" and I don't mean Dallas. It really is amazing, you think that you know someone very well, then after 9 years you find out that you really do not know them at all. I never thought that a person could hurt and betray the ones that she claimed to love so dearly without the slightest bit of remorse. Then you have the so called great friend that I have known since 19...77, I called him my brother, and he called my parents Mom and Dad, he lived on their property. He not only betrayed our trust but helped destroy a marraige. I am not perfect, I know that I did my share of screw ups, but I never would do this. Good luck to both of you. My son caught them together on 4 June 12, and they both blamed him for saying something. Well it is for the best, she has been cheating and stealing from me for a long time now. I never saw it coming. I guess we live and learn, but after 10 yrs, it is my sons that are the ones that will feel this over the long run. They were 4 & 6 when she entered their lives, she was the one they trusted. I have a lot of work to do to help them through this. We will make it though. I can say I never cheated on her, never hit her, and when I said I loved her forever, I meant it. Shame on me for letting love blind me so bad that my sons got hurt. The hurt will subside and the pain will go away. I will always love both of you, I will miss you Cindy, and eventually I will forgive you both, but I will never forget what you both did to this family. In the words of Doc Holliday (Tombstone is my favorite movie) I am your Huckleberry (Cindy) You started a game we didn’t finish…Play for Blood… well she asked for it, she will get her wish.